Sunday, January 1, 2012

Fastforward/rewind: how to set New Year resolutions

Although every day offers us an opportunity to begin our lives afresh, many people choose New Year to set resolutions for what they want to achieve because it is a clear threshold in time. But before putting pen to paper this year, it's useful to rewind and fastforward our lives 12 months in each direction.
The write stuff ... imagine looking back from a year
 in the future at the goals you're now writing.
 Sense the wonderful feeling of achievement.

Go back to New Year's Day, last year. Have we achieved what we set out to achieve back then? Did we truly focus on the priorities?

Wind the clock forward a year into the future. How do we want to feel when we look back at the goals we are setting at this point?

In setting our goals, let's also consider the following:

1) How do our new or revised goals fit with our life purpose?

2) How do we remain focused?

3) How do our goals will stretch us?

LIFE PURPOSE
Sometimes, we set goals to achieve what others expect of us. If we do not believe in the goal, we’re unlikely to achieve it or, if we do, we’ll be left wanting. We must know what we really want from life and how being where we are now helps us to get there.

To find our purpose, we ask what role we want to play on this earth, what we enjoy doing and what we would do if there were no limits. When we have purpose and goal setting working together, we are energised.

STAYING FOCUSED
Self-help guru Steven Covey who gave us The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People equips us with an excellent framework for prioritising activities that will help us and eliminating those that have no bearing on our success.

His four-quadrant box classifies tasks as "urgent" and "not urgent" on one axis, and "important" and "not important" on the other. In the top left, we list tasks that are both urgent and important and, in the top right, those that are not urgent but important. We focus on these two boxes to achieve effectiveness. The other two boxes are for urgent and not important and not urgent and not important activities.

GOALS THAT STRETCH US
To grow, we need to move from our comfort zones and towards new horizons. If we set easily achievable goals, there is little motivation. We need goals that move us emotionally.

Research by Dr Edwin Locke in the 1960s revealed a link between how difficult and specific a goal is and how we perform at the tasks towards achieving it. Specific and difficult goals result in better performance than vague or easy ones. We regard hard goals as more of an accomplishment.

And, of course, it's worth remembering that a goal that isn't written down and reviewed regularly is just dream.

Through effective planning and focus, we become more productive and better equipped to cut out distractions. Whether we look at the year ahead in terms of months, weeks or days, it remains a significant time in which to make our mark.

by Mervin Straughan


NOTE this post first appeared on this blog in 2008.

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Thursday, December 15, 2011

Sharing tips for our personal success journey

Smiles better ... some of the biggest names in personal
 growth have kindly contributed their tips for success.
My Goals Buddy is where you'll find tips for personal success straight from some of the biggest names in personal growth and self help.

There is a wealth of advice to give you the tools and techniques to make a difference personally and professionally.

We'll also tell you about new books that are about to hit the retailers' shelves and we're always keen to receive your recommendations for the titles that have had the biggest impact on your life.

We'd also like to receive your top tips for success as well as your favourite motivational quotes. Click on the "Your Tips" tab at the top of the home page and begin sharing.

Some of the expert contributors to this site kindly make free resources available for readers. You can find them here.

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Monday, October 17, 2011

How to stay motivated and soar as a goals achiever

Lift off ... internal motivation 
has longer-lasting impact.
by Mervin Straughan

"If you think you're too small to have an impact, go to bed with a mosquito in the room."

We've the late Dame Anita Roddick, humanitarian, British businesswoman and founder of The Body Shop to thank for this quote which summarises our potential impact in life.

To have impact, goal setters need motivation and there are several drivers. For instance, in our careers, we might be driven by status, material rewards, power and influence, security or fulfilment.

Whichever aspect of our lives we explore, there are two types of motivation: external and internal.
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Monday, March 21, 2011

Climb quicker with free life coach resources

Some of our expert contributors provide the following free resources:

Goal mapping templates, Brian Mayne of LIFT International
http://www.liftinternational.com/goal-mapping/templates.html

How to Get Through the Week When You Don't Feel Like It - a fab free ebook from the inspirational Steve Phillip
http://bit.ly/gmK0IM

Make it Happen, a great ebook by Arvind Devalia
http://www.arvinddevalia.com/blog/book/

Various general resources from Gladeana McMahon
http://www.gladeanamcmahon.com/freeresources.shtml

Various professional resources from Gladeana McMahon
http://www.gladeanamcmahon.com/proresources.shtml

Videos and articles from Willie Horton
http://www.gurdy.net/PublicPages/freeStuff.html

Why Affirmations Are So Powerful, Susan Jeffers Ph.D
http://www.susanjeffers.com/home/goodies.cfm

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